Ok, so that isn't the lesson, well, not really. Things haven't been great lately as you might imagine. Our case manager came over this morning to help me try to figure out my finances.--YIKES!-- I know, I stress shop. I also shop when depressed. Can we say I've been majorly depressed lately? Guess what I've been doing-- Yup, spending money I don't have. Well, I have finally pulled my head out of the sand, and am facing my finances head on, so to speak. Now, I'm not perfect, so I'm sure I will make mistakes along the way, but I'm hoping if I do, they will be small ones--like buying a cup of coffee at Dunkin Donuts--not going out and spending $100 on a cricut I really want but don't need. Although I'm hoping that I'll be strong enough to pass on the irresistible call of Dunkin Donuts!
I really thought Jenn would yell at me for spending the money on the hamster, but she was actually happy we bought her. Recognizing that she's therapy for Will. Yeah!
However, the real lesson came from working hard to stay positive throughout the last few months (2 years). When Jenn walked in the door she told me that she was given the OK from her bosses for me to offer massage at her office throughout the month of December. They will provide a room for me to use, people will sign up on certain days during my available times and I get to keep all the profits! Wow! She also wants me to gather some of my crafts to sell at her office. They will set up a table for my cards, crocheted animals, vinegars, oils, body scrubs, and anything else I want to sell. I can also market myself and sell gift certificates, as well as take orders for other personalized items I make such as the book frames.
So the lesson is, always strive to see the positive, and act positively (I'm not perfect, but I work at it every day) and you will attract positivity to you. I am truly blessed. Plus as I write this Sophie has been running around the entire downstairs of my house in her hamster ball. She is quite the speed demon. I think she might deserve a speeding ticket at this point. She also might be texting or involved in some other form of distracted driving as she keeps running into everything--maybe she's intoxicated..... The fine for that would go quite a ways at financial freedom. ;-)
I know, she's in her hamster wheel here, not her purple ball, but she's too darn fast in the ball! I'll share a picture either here or over at Emily's perspective when I catch her in the act. |
WOW! I am so proud of you! I too have poured through my finances, and have been faced with some serious moments of "oh shit..." but looking at everything with a fresh perspective, and knowing I am digging my way out of debt has been worth it. Have you tried www.mint.com? I love it - its free, and it helps you track your budget - it even has an iphone app. We can get together and I can show you if you want =)
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